Have you ever asked yourself how is it like when you do things you want to do without thinking about it first? Every day we do things that help us survive and help us be someone one day. We build our own future and we forget about the fact that life is one. You have only one shot to do it right and you are afraid of the fact that you might do it wrong. Some of us didn't get the wanted education and some of us are not satisfied with the work we are doing. Some of us got a baby way too early and some of us are still single and trying to find their own match in this crazy world. But we keep forgetting one thing: We have control over our lives. Just because we lost ourselves in the woods, that doesn't mean that we can't find the right path.
Don’t feel sorry for yourself! Go ahead and do things you always wanted to do!
A few tips if you want to do blind date!
Have you ever been on a blind date before? Dates set up by your friends could be really good, but also, could be a complete disaster. People are always expecting too much from each other and that is the main reason why we say that blind dates end up as a complete disaster. In order to have a successful one, you need to be rational and not to idealize things.
What can an argument do to your relationship?!
We are all different and all of us have different lifestyles. When it comes to relationships, you can't remain the same and still have an amazing romantic story. Compromises need to be made as well as feelings of understanding and compassion. You don't have to change yourself completely, because you would lose yourself, but the point is that you need to adjust to the current partner the best way you can. Just like he/she is going to do and still be yourself.
When I asked my sister how bad are her fights with her boyfriend, she said that they never had an argument. I was confused by that, because I am a firm believer that if you don't fight from time to time, that means that something is seriously wrong with that relationship. I might be mistaking, but if everything is pink and wonderful and one day you don't agree about something, that fight can mess up things really bad. If you are getting along about every single thing, that can mean that one of you is making a lot of compromises and keeps its mouth shut. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that you should have arguments where you are going to yell and scream at each other and trash the entire apartment. I am saying that arguments like:" I don't like the thing you just did it hurt my feelings, can you please not do it again" are good. Expressing your feelings will help you maintain a healthy relationship. You don't have to take things just because you want everything to be fine. If you do have a relationship where you and your partner are getting along perfectly, then awesome. Just make sure that you always express what you feel, because otherwise you will lose yourself and your personality. Sure, in relationships the word "us" is important, but also it is important that you appreciate yourself as much as you appreciate your partner. When you have small arguments with your partner, you learn how to deal with that and you learn how to understand it. If you don't have it, fine, but what will you do when that eventually starts happening? In the beginning everything is magical and wonderful and of course normal thing is that you don't argue. Later on, when the relationship is getting more serious, you have to express your own opinion about the way you see things. Do not start unnecessary fights but if you feel like you have something to say, don't hold your breath, because that will come back and hunt you.Get rid of your jealousy!
Last time we were talking about jealousy and ways on which you can leave it behind you. So here are some techniques on how you can do it right.
Handle jealousy before it becomes an issue!
No, I'm not jealous? Me, jealous? That's ridiculous! Sounds familiar? When you look at it a little bit closer and ask yourself these questions and if your answer on more than half of them is 'yes', then I'm sorry, but you are a jealous kind of person: