Is it love or just pure sexual attraction?


How can you make a difference between real love or pure sexual attraction? Sometimes we are confused with our own feelings that we can not tell what is the truth. Saying 'I love you' can mean a hundred different things. And only if you know how to make that difference, it can help you out a lot in making some decisions and dealing with your own emotions. Read this article and help yourself realize what is it that you feel.

No matter if you are in a relationship with someone who knows how to compliment your senses and with whom your sexual life has reached some new boundaries. Or if you are having an occasional sex with someone who does the same thing, but you are not sure how you feel about that person, all of that can be very confusing. The first thing you should do is to consider whether your interest stays interested in you. See if that other person feels the same confusion that you do and if he/she wants to be in a relationship of any real depth. 

Think about the things that you are doing together. Do you spend more time talking or having sex? It is true that people lust after one another in the beginning of every kind of relationship. Take your time and see where is that going. In this, you should thrust your instincts. Usually, our body knows things before our mind realizes it. Check out the body language of your partner. Our body has romantic spots like hands, arms, face and knee and if your partner touches is it more often, then it can mean something more than just pure sexual thing. Of course, you can apply this to yourself and your behavior when you are with that someone. As opposite of those romantic spots there is touching your chest, crotch, inside of thigh and bum…

Analyze your conversations. Ask yourself how often do you have real conversations and how often do you have love talks? If your partner is constantly changing the subject or tries to kiss and touch you, then that's all he/she is interested in. 

If you are sure what you feel towards your partner then you are doubting in her/his feelings. Probably what would be the best thing to do is to confront your partner directly just to see what is going on. Of course that is how you risk of loosing your partner if you are the only one who wants something more, but you have your feelings and you don't want to be in a relationship that is based on sex, or maybe you do? 

First look into your heart and see what is it that you really want. If you are in a real relationship and if you have mind blowing sex, you can develop much serious emotions, but for that takes time. And if you are with someone with whom you have amazing sex with no strings attached, you should be careful about your and feelings of your partner. We hope that this article will help you out in figuring your own feelings and your partner's thoughts. 

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